Personal Success Means Getting Over Whatever is Stopping You

Personal success requires being an overcomer. The one thing that gets in the way of success for 98% of the population is that they allow their excuses to get in the way of their personal success.?Having healthy success strategies means letting go of unhealthy behaviors.?

Have you ever met someone who is full of excuses from the very first moment you meet them? They are a complete VICTIM simply because they do not take responsibility for their thoughts, their choices, their words, their actions, their reactions, and their behavior.?Dani Johnson, trainer in the home business industry, says that:?An EXCUSE is nothing but, a WELL-PLANNED LIE!?

Maybe theyre constantly feeling sorry for things that they could have done better or differently.?Many people feel they need to explain everything they do to avoid getting blamed or judged by others.? Explaining or justifying can also be a way of trying to eliminate feelings of guilt that may arise from doing something you may not approve of.? Perhaps you even have a small part of yourself that tends to make up new excuses for why you're late, or why you didn't do what you said you would do, or why you aren't feeling great about yourself and your life.

There are two kinds of people in this world:?Those who choose to live their life as an exclamation and those who are trapped in living their life as an explanation.? Personal success means getting over these excuses.?It is critical if you want to become a success story and reach your goals.?These two ?kinds of people are:

1. VICTORS:?The first group of people choose to see their life as a celebration.?They consciously focus on what they can be grateful for and celebrate even the small things that life brings them.?These people are always ready to empower others.? They see life as a grand adventure and a spiritual exploration and take responsibility for everything that happens within themselves and in all of their relationships.

2.?VICTIMS:?The second type of person tends to hide and doesnt see the truth of who they are.? They are blind to their inner beauty and divinity because they believe that something is fundamentally wrong with them.?They use excuses as a crutch and a way of hiding what is "wrong" with them.? They explain away anything that does not appear to be okay with regards their behavior.?

They blame circumstances and other people for things that have occurred. Unfortunately, this tendency to blame and explain keeps the person from not claiming their own power in the world.? When you are constantly wrapped up in thinking, "What will other people think of me", its difficult to see your true beauty and how things are perfect just the way they are.

If you find yourself swinging back and forth between these two extremes or simply stuck working in the excuse factory, it's time to take a good long look inwards.? Think about who you will be in 20 years from now if you continue to exercise the excuse habit.?What will it feel like to live this kind of future?

Imagine now what it would be like to give up your excuses completely today. What kind of personal success would that empower you with??What would it feel like to simply say NO to giving anyone an excuse for anything, and to simply tell your truth as it IS-- raw and real.? The next time that you are late, try expressing the truth instead of making up an excuse.?

It is so important to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for yourself, your actions, and your behavior.?You might say something like, "I really didn't leave my home early enough to be here on time"?or "I just decided I would rather watch the rest of my T.V. show."? I challenge and invite you to see how radically honest you can become!

A part of you may be afraid that people will dislike or fear you IF you speak your truth instead of making excuses. The reality is that most people know when you are making an excuse and would like to know how you really feel about something or what is truly happening with you.? Speaking your truth and living from this place of celebration will deepen all of your relationships because they will be based on a foundation of trust and authenticity.??Giving up excuses is like letting go of a VERY heavy weight.?Being radically honest is one of the most liberating things you will ever experience, and will bring your total freedom. Acquiring personal success is about you using the success strategy of stepping into your power, taking your life back by being totally responsible for everything, and reeling in the greatest catch you will ever find....YOU!!?? When you give up living your life as an explanation,?you begin to experience deeper authentic relationships with people that are founded on who you are and not the image you are trying to project.??When you are a 'victory' you will experience financial success.

Just try it&for even one week, one day, one hour or even one conversation with someone.? Stop living your life as an explanation and start experiencing it as a joyous, truthful exclamation, and joy!?Affirmation:?I am totally 100% responsible for EVERYTHING in my life and I create my reality!

Here are some of the Unhealthy Behaviors, Excuses, and Justifiers That Victims Use.?Victims need to learn to get over it in order to become a success story and acquire personal success.?

1.???????? After, I................. 2.???????? Been there, done that....... 3.???????? Can't afford it...? 4.?????????????????? Computer is down........ 5.?????????????????? Didn't work before...... 6.?????????????????? Don't feel like it... 7.?????????????????? Don't have to.... 8.?????????????????? Dont have any&. 9.?????????????????? Don't know enough........ 10.?????????????? Everything is a struggle for me........ 11.?????????????? Family comes first. 12.?????????????? Got a headache. 13.?????????????? Have a zit on face....... 14.?????????????? Have no energy..... 15.?????????????? Have no money........ 16.?????????????? Have no time....... 17.?????????????? Have nothing to wear...... 18.?????????????? Having a bad hair day....... 19.?????????????? House is a mess........ 20.?????????????? I always fail........ 21.?????????????? I can't........... 22.?????????????? I deserve a break............. 23.?????????????? I don't know how............ 24.?????????????? I don't want to fail........ 25.?????????????? I don't want to look stupid..... 26.?????????????? I forgot........... 27.?????????????? I shouldn't........ 28.?????????????? I won't.......... 29.?????????????? I'm in pain.......... 30.?????????????? It won't work....... 31.?????????????? It's boring......... 32.?????????????? It's just the way I am...... 33.?????????????? It's no use........ 34.?????????????? It's not my job........ 35.?????????????? Job comes first.......... 36.?????????????? Later........ 37.?????????????? Lost my........ 38.?????????????? My friends don't do it.......... 39.?????????????? My parents........ 40.?????????????? My partner thinks......... 41.?????????????? Nee more self-time......... 42.?????????????? Need to relax...... 43.?????????????? Never thought of it.......... 44.?????????????? Not in the cards........ 45.?????????????? Not in the right mood....... 46.?????????????? Not my time........... 47.?????????????? Not my responsibility....... 48.?????????????? Not smart enough........ 49.?????????????? Others come first....... 50.?????????????? Soon....... 51.?????????????? The kids won't let me....... 52.?????????????? Tomorrow is another day.... 53.?????????????? Too broke...... 54.?????????????? Too busy.........

Businesswoman, Rose Kirkland assists Women to be success stories and inspiration to others. The fact that you are investigating the home-based business industry is a sign that you have dreams and trust in those dreams. Let me assist you come visit: Success and Freedom